Lisa Laird, 644 words

Do you bring God apples? "Bringing God apples" is an almost perfect analogy in terms of the relationship many of us have with our Creator. This common form of worship is performed by all religions; it is encouraged. "Bringing God apples" attests a level of faith. However, is it merely subconscious bribery?

There are beliefs and customs derived from various origins. We often equate a "holy" person with one whom abides by these rituals or rules. Those who follow the "yellow brick road" of obligations are frequently deemed "religious" by themselves and others; those who don't, are labeled "non-religious." "Practicing" versus "non-practicing." As a society, we seem to accept this universal notion, and judge ourselves accordingly. When observations are in conjunction with attending weekly services, we're bringing God an orchard.

I am not mocking religious worship; I have total faith in God, and lead my life based on that belief. Recently, I was asked if I am a "practicing" Catholic. In other words, do I attend Sunday Mass, save myself through Confession, etc... This definition of "practicing" bothers me. I pray to God quite often; and not solely when I am in need of divine guidance.

A friend of mine, who is of a different faith, always tells me: It's HOW you live your life that matters. I try my best to be a kind, generous, and loving person. Isn't that the message of God? Thus, aren't I "practicing?" On another occasion, someone had made the comment, "You don't go to church every Sunday. You shouldn't celebrate Christmas." Was this some kind of religious analogy of "no pain, no gain?"

I was absolutely appalled. As if celebrating Christmas is the reward one gets for attending Mass all year. I highly doubt that's where them term "holiday bonus" originated. I can't help resenting these "know-it-alls" who point fingers at others. Don't they know it's not polite to point...Ideally, worshipping "by the book" is preferable and commendable. Just be sure, if you ARE following all the rituals and observations, you are also a kind, generous, and loving person in everyday life.

Attending weekly services, confessing sins regularly, abstaining from meat each Friday during Lent, and brushing your teeth with "Kosher for Passover" toothpaste are all meaningless if you are not a good-hearted person. The peace offering exchanged during Mass should be an extension of greeting someone you pass on the street. If you don't smile at a stranger all week, don't bother in church either. Our ever day words and actions, reflecting the Word of God, determine our devotion; not the formal obligations. Whatever happened to "Love Thy Neighbor?"

From what I've noticed, it seems to have been replaced by religious intolerance. The ongoing fight over Jerusalem is a prime example. When hatred is fueled in the name of religion, it is a direct contradiction of the essence and message of God. Based on this shameful behavior, perhaps no-one, at this time, deserves sovereignty. God wouldn't decide; He doesn't pick favorites. If He did, He wouldn't be God.

There's more than one route to a given destination. Just believe, and be a good person. You'll go to Heaven; I have faith there is one. And not because my assigned religion tells me there is...but, because we don't go to Las Vegas with the intent of losing; I know I don't. Do what's right for you; don't judge others. They have reasons for their beliefs, just as you have yours. Don't attempt to convert anyone until you're perfect yourself. Mind your own business, practice your faith the way you see fit, and, above all else . . . be a good person.

Remember, a conscientious student doesn't need to bring the teacher an apple. Don't worry about bringing God apples, either...He's way too busy tossing out the rotten ones.

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