10-9-01, Sunday Journal, 357 words
The Importance of One Straw
By Dalton Roberts
IPS Features
At
a real tough time in my life a friend did a small favor for me and I wrote in my
journal, "Never underestimate the value of removing one straw from the
camel's back."
Sometimes
we feel so desperate and alone. We know that the smallest additional burden will
break our back. How magnificent is a small touch of love at such a time. It can
make the difference in us going under or going on.
We
tend to look for opportunities to do something sensational. Such opportunities
seldom happen. But never a day passes that we cannot do something for someone in
the tentacles of a octopus-level problem.
So
go for removing one straw from someone's load. It's something you can always do.
ROSA'S
SECRET
Rosa
Parks refused to go to the back of the bus and it started the Montgomery
boycott. It led to the dropping of segregation in public transportation.
It
may appear that her decision to not give up her seat to a white passenger was an
angry spur-of-the-moment decision. She tells us otherwise: "On the day I
was arrested I had made up my mind what I felt was the right thing to do."
She
explained, "When one's mind is made up this diminishes fear. Knowing what
must be done does away with fear."
I
understand this principle and I'm sure you do, too. Just think of times when you
have been certain you knew what had to be done. Remember the calm resolve, the
center of certainty, the iron will that took control of your being.
She
had been meeting with a group of black and white citizens determined to change
the dehumanizing practice of black people having to give up their seats to white
passengers. She had grown the courage to
take
her stand. It was a calm, deliberate process.
Examples
of courage hearten us. At times when I have needed to take a stand, remembering
Rosa has often put the grit in my craw to get it on.
As
she says, "Knowing what must be done does away with fear."
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