11-10-02 Sunday Journal
SHAKING THE SUPERMAN COMPLEX
By Dalton Roberts
IPS Features
Reading the parable of the
talents, I was struck by how ridiculous our Superman complex is - our feeling
that we must leap tall buildings to be worthy.
Where do we get this pervasive feeling of unworthiness? This feeling that we
cannot be acceptable in God's sight without some heroic achievement or
sacrifice?
Surely you have had the feeling when talking to a wonderful friend who keeps
putting himself/herself down, "God, if only I could reach inside their
heart and pull out the roots of this sick and silly disease of
unworthiness."
Weirdly, it's usually some of the best human beings we know who are afflicted
with it. People who quietly go about their lives doing good, being kind, being
helpful, working every day, and loving their families and friends. Sometimes
they even love their enemies, too.
There are five words in Jesus' parable of the talents that should give us some
perspective on how much good we need to do to be approved and rewarded by Him.
With each person who used their talents well He said, "Well done, thou good
and faithful servant: thou hast been FAITHFUL OVER A FEW THINGS. I will make you
ruler over many things."
Let us allow our hearts to become a big sponge and soak up those words,
"Faithful over a few things."
What keeps the kingdom of God in our midst (yes, Jesus said it is in our midst)
are little people doing little good things day after day. Seldom are we in a
position to do some overwhelming act that will earn us the Nobel Prize or put
our smiling faces on the front page of the newspaper.
I was in politics for 16 years and helped build trade centers, industrial parks,
an aquarium, a Riverwalk and all kinds of things you can touch with your hands
and look at and admire. But I don't do those things any more. Now I take my
guitar into nursing homes and try to put a smile on faces twisted with pain. Is
that less important?
Recently I spoke to a luncheon group of seniors and several of them urged me to
run again. I said, "What I am doing here today, is just as important as
anything I have ever done."
A little Goldfinch flew into my window and knocked itself out. I brought it in
from the snow and worked on it until it regained consciousness. Is that less
important?
No. God looks upon the heart. Every tiny act you do out of love keeps the
kingdom of God in our midst.
Quit beating up on yourself. God doesn't want you hurt any more than He wants
you to hurt others. Forget being Superman and just be you -- a kind and loving
you right there where God has placed you. There is a big reason you are there
and it may be to do little things. Jesus said a good and faithful servant is
"faithful over a few things."
In my first book, "Things That Really Matter," I was given this to
write:
Today
If you say
Just one healing word
To a battered soul
You may uplift the life of man
More than a skilled surgeon
For it's the heart of the world
That needs healing.
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